Flashback to '95
It was a foggy morning when I woke up from my bed rubbing my eyes. The ladder that descends down to the backyard of my house was made up of half stone and the remaining half of wood. I’ve observed the wooden part washed up by downpour every monsoon been gradually changing its color to grayish with black spots. The stone paved backyard was like some greenish skiing court due to all those algae grown in the monsoon. I almost did back somersault while entering kitchen through our little skiing court.
I was drinking tea directly from the kettle when mom entered kitchen with a Gaauri full of water in her waist. My disgusting behavior was enough for her to start her long lecture.
“You stupid” she put down Gaauri and shows her frustration by putting her hands in her forehead.
“Hare Shiva, when will you be grow up” she lit the Bio-gas and placed the kettle in the fire. “Go and wash your face first, have shame on yourself you donkey” she pushed me out of the kitchen. I was in the Tap by the side of front yard before mom finishes her lecture.
“Oie Ramesh” there was a call from the road. “See there are Chayngra and sheep coming from the Fera, let’s go” I was just splashing water in my face when Upen called me.
Mom heard him in the kitchen and came out scolding “Don’t you have any work, when you have time you roam here and there like a street dog and when school resume cry like a pig ”
I hide myself by the Marigold’s tree and slowly reached the road by kneeling down. I dried my face with the help of my shirts sleeves. Shit my bad luck. Mom saw me.
“You donkey don’t you want a tea, wait I’ll tell dad” and she entered inside.
We ran away that means I borrowed the loan from dad; loan of scolding. Dad had never beaten us so I was ready to sacrifice my tea for first heard of Sheep of a Dashain. Our house was by the old foot trail that was regular route of sheep transport from Mustang, Tibet and Dolpa to Pokhara. We ascend the hill to reach Fera; it was a around 6:30am, in the east the sky above Sarangkot was red while in the south-east the fog had completely engulfed Pokhara valley so there was not a glimpse of Fewa lake. But in the North last night’s snowfall in Machhapuchre had converted the black and white fishtail mountain into a white one.
We were overjoyed to see flock of sheep and chyangra after one year. We watched them from the stone wall by the side of the road. Time and again we tried to touch the long and curley horn of Chyangra.
“What is the cost for the best one Ista?” Upen asked. People used to call Sherpa’s; the owner of the flock Ista.
“What you want to buy Sheep or Chyangra?” Ista asked. “It’s 27 hundred for sheep and 32 hundred for a Chyangra”. We were proud that Ista thought that we were there to buy Chyangra.
”It’s too expensive Ista for a Dolpali Chyangra, yesterday my father bought Mustange chyangra in two thousand” Upen tried to be smart.
“Oh I see”, Ista pointed his finger to the roof of a house by the road. “You see there, in the roof, I think that is the Chyangra your father bought in two thousand” he was pointing to red pumpkins arranged in the line on the roof of house. I laughed at Upen, he felt awkward so didn’t utter a word. We started to chase Chyangra. “Osshh osshh osshh osshh”.
My whole morning was gone chasing black, white and gray Chyangra. I was home at 10am. Dad was in the front porch talking with our neighbor and mom was cleaning pots and pans.
“Did you finish the vacation homework?” Dad asked as I reached our front yard. “Yes, I finished 10 subjects and now just 3 more to go”. I told a lie, I had just finished 3 subjects and had 10 more to go. That was the only way to get a clean cheat from dad.
“I’d checked his copy, he had just finished 3 of them” My brother shouted from the veranda.
The color of my chicks changed to red and my ear started ringing. Dad glared at me, the wrinkle appeared in his forehead and his eyes grew bigger. The cold chill went through my back and his look made me about to pee in my shorts.
“You donkey, don’t you need to read” he grumbled. “You can’t leave the house until you finish your homework”. I stayed there nodding in front of dad.
“Why are you nodding here like a cock eating a salt? Go and do your homework”. I was about to climb the ladder when mom called me for the lunch. Thanks mom for your kindness coz my belly was really in need of milk and rice.
I waited all day hoping dad to leave the house so that I can go and chase chyangra, but dad never left the house. I never saw dad whole day at the house before but that day everything were happening for the first time. I opened my books during a daytime for the first time and pretended doing homework but my ears were in road listening to “osshh osshh osshh” of Ista’s and eyes were in front porch looking for dad’s image to vanish which never happened.
After 15 years:
A vibration on my cell phone waked me up. I grabbed my mobile and checked my inbox. The message reads like this “No Archie’s card 2 give, no sweet flowers to send, no cute graphics to parcel. Just a good wish saying ‘happy vijaya dashami 067’”. It was around half past six and I was having a silent sleep after finishing 2 months long and tiring exam the day before. This beep in my cell certainly did disturb me but the warm wish on the very morning on the first day of Vijaya Dashami was something to cherish. I got up from my bed and turned on my computer, played mangal dhun in my PC and signed in facebook. 15 notification, 3 dashain gift and 5 message all about welcoming Dashain and wishing happy Dashain. My morning went in front of PC and later that day I called my friend and we went for a shopping. I bought a ticket to travel back home and a new shirt. Next morning I was out of Kathmandu on my way home. After 9hrs of long and tiring journey I was at home. Mom was preparing for growing Jamara. People used to cultivate jamara seeing the moom of second day of NauDurga.
“Yea!!! You’re home!!!” Mom got surprised seeing me. “At what time did you start your journey? Why didn’t you call us? Was there Jam in the road?.......”. Long list of questionnaire were thrown on me as I was silently searching for flocks of Chyangra up above on Fera.
The Rolpa Boy II
पहिचान
भावसुन्य मस्तिष्क बोकिहिँडिरहेकोछु
आफ्नै पहिचान खोज्दै
सडक, गल्ली र बस्तीहरुमा
अन्धकार गल्ली
अनकन्टार बस्ती
अनि
दिग्भर्मित सडक
आफैमा हराइरहेछन्
पहिचानको खोजिमा
भौतारिरहेछन्
जिवनयापनका लागि
निराश मन बोकि
लड्खडाइरहेको छु
आफ्नै परिभाषा खोज्दै
गाँऊ, पाखा र भन्ज्याङ्हरुमा
शोकाकुल गाँऊ
रक्ताम्य पाखा
अनि
चिहानमा रुपान्तरित भन्ज्याङ्हरु
आफैमा रोइरहेछन्
परिभाषाको पुनर्लेखनको लागि
लड्खडाइरहेछन्
अस्तित्व रछ्याको लागि
स्तब्ध आत्मा बोकि
लत्रिरहेछु
गन्तब्य बिहिन दोबाटोमा
विचार हराएको म
आफ्नै परिभाषाको खोजिमा
सोचिरहेछु
मेरो पहिचान निरन्तर
किनकी
म विचारसुन्य भएको छु
मेरो आस्था मरिएको छ
अनि
कैद गरिएका छन्
मेरा अपरिचित विवेकहरु
A Evening at the Tea Shop
There might be many motives to be in “Roadside Tea Shop” but the common thing that we prefer to say ourselves is “Let’s have a cup of tea”. Yesterday was not the different day. After a tiring day with Colouris’s Distributed System I wanted to have a cup of tea, I called my GRE freaked friends and by 6:30 we were in The Roadside Tea Shop. Simple setting with 2 sets of wooden diner and a white dolphin sets. A shopkeeper in his mid thirties, small, with black beard and fat belly is not an interesting guy nor is his tea. Despite that irritating face and tasteless tea it is our routine to be in that Tea Shop. We ordered 3 cup of lemon tea.
“Let’s have a sip of tea” Sam sweetens his face as if some alcoholic is hunting the beer glass.
“Sip of tea” I laughed.”Where did that came from huh, I think that thing in the glass is not Royal Stag”.
As we know for guys like us the only that will catalyze us for English chat is Royal Stag (sometime Khukuri rum can play the trick)
“It’s GRE!!! Boy” Rob smirked at me and with a confident look at his eye he said “And for your reference we don’t drink anymore”.
“See who is saying this, hahaha” I giggled. “I know you left drinking for dozens times in the past”
“This time” Sam pointed the index finger at me and after a little pause he grumbled “it’s true”. He utter that word “TRUE” as if he was telling something true for the first time in his life, slammed the table and take a sip of tea. I and Rob were shocked by his dipsomaniac act so we stared at him without a blink.
“What? Common guys, It’s just a lemon tea” Sam stammered, eyes wide open.
“I thought it was Royal Stag” And the loud laughter burst out in the Roadside Tea Shop.
Rob and Sam made themselves busy with their GRE memorizing some silly words. I was sitting on the dolphin chair at the corner along with my lemonade tea and trying to remember some of my Colouris’s definitions.
“Why are you silent Orthodox guy?” Rob hit me.
I smiled (sarcastically)”Why you saying me an Orthodox? Can you explain?”
“Orthodox: believing and following all the traditional belief, laws and practices of religion” he recited the meaning of Orthodox. “So you are Orthodox” They give five to each other and laughed.
“My ass, Orthodox” I shouted. “I know some English, don’t try to fool me, at least use your stupid GRE somewhere relevant”
“Who cares Bro, all we care is remembering a word” Rob laughed. “By the way Sam, what is the synonym for stupid?”
“mmmmmmmmm” Sam tried to remember.
“Idiot” I told.
“That’s too simple, it’s not GRE” Rob again laughed.
“Shit! Shit! Shit!” Sam shouted as if there was a fire in his ass. “I forgot it man, I learned it just this morning”
“Never mind” Rob smiled. “We gonna find it tonight and use it for you Kailash”
Sam raised his glass to make a toast and we joined with ours “To our own stupid Kailash”
I was freaked out. “Assholes” I muttered.
I raised my glass “To you assholes” I paused to think some word more relevant than asshole “mmmmm assholes, that’s fine and to your asshole GRE” they laughed at me but that was ok for me. I drank the remaining tea in a sip.
“I think you can define me, ‘What is Asshole?’ can you Sam?” I winked at Sam.
“Wait, I can” Sam nodded. “It’s a hole in a part of body that you sit on”
“Aaaahahahahaha Aaaaaahahahaha Aaaaaaahahahaha” And the loud laughter burst out again.
It was about 7:30 PM, time to hit our rooms. “Hey Rob, move your fat ass, it’s time to leave” I chuckled and punched on his arm.
“Don’t dare to punch my machho arms again.” He yelled. “You don’t know how many bottles of Carlsberg I have emptied to make this big”. He pulled his t-shirt up and showed his fatty arms.
“What?” I winked. “That dialogue is from a Nepali movie, so you started to watch Nepali movie, good for you man”
“What’s good in watching Nepali movie?” Sam said. “Look we spent 700 to watch that movie and I lost whole day, now I don’t even remember the synonym of “stupid”, damn it”
“Really, Sam,” I laughed. “You should watch English movie to increase your vocabulary, not Nepali movie, and especially not with somebody’s girlfriends”.
“Hey, she is not somebody’s girlfriend. She is our friends, but god gifted her with girlish character” he chuckled. “But not voice”
“Her voice isn’t that bad” Sam lowered his tone. He looked as if he was lost somewhere. I think he was trying to remember the meaning of stupid.
“I got an idea man” Sam said casually. “We need to watch English movie, let’s go and get one”
“English movie won’t help me with AI, Distributed System or NP, so I need to head home guys” I bid goodbye and walked away.
“Goodbye, goofy” Sam yelled from the other side of road. He finally remembered the synonym of stupid. I smiled and wend my way home.
Insignificant 23
Gandhi said that “whatever you do in life will be insignificant, but it's very important that you do it. Because nobody else will”. That’s what I’m thinking now. Trying to do something insignificant, something nobody else will do or have done. I don’t think any of you got a clue what I’m talking about; don’t worry I’ll tell you. By 23, Gandhi had 3 kids; Mozart, 37 symphonies; Nadal, 41 titles; Messi, FIFA player of the year and here I am …………...(I also don’t know). Yes I’m 23 and I’m not that much genius that I could think of an insignificant deed. And about above paragraph anyone less genius then me also can find out that I stole it from a movie, but not all of it. I believe in open source so a little modification can make my work original.
Yesterday my mood was not really into cooking so I went to Baneshwor Chowk. The street kitchens are being popular these days and personally I am the great fan of street foods. Last time when I went for street food I had a horrible experience. Some stupid gal threw her trash in my foot. That was crazy. I was afraid that same thing might go again but it was just some other day. That day her apologies couldn’t cheer me up. But today one thing is bringing smile in my face i.e. she was celebrating her 23rd birthday with friends.
World Cricket League Division 4: Nepal lost to Tanzania and USA so it couldn’t qualify for Division 3. The hope of whole nation to see our team in world cup was shattered on the very moment Nepal lost to Tanzania in group stage when they couldn’t chase the minuscule target of 118. Despite that Nepal won an insignificant match i.e. 3rd place playoff with 10 wickets against same Tanzania. After the tournament I went through the profile of every team. And to my surprise ours was the youngest team in the tournament and the average age was 23 yrs.
Last week I got an invitation of facebook fan page named “Martyrs of Nepal”. Though I knew the most part of the story about four Martyrs of BS 1997, I read the post. And Gangalal Shrestha really swept my feet off. When I went through his Biography I was amused. How could he give his life for the insignificant cause named Democracy? Insignificant in a sense that nothing has happened in last 60 years of democratic regime. On Kartik 15, 1997, he and Dasharath Chand were shot dead in front of Shobha Bhagwati. And guess what he was 23 yrs old.
These insignificant 23’s are driving me crazy. As Gandhi said that whatever you do in life will be insignificant, so was that girl’s apologies, so was Nepal’s win, and so was Martyrdom of Gangalal. And today it’s 23rd August, so here comes another insignificant post INSIGNIFICANT 23.