Loser’s inspiration

Loser’s inspiration

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What inspires you the most in your life? And after the little pause the answer may be simple like an incident, a song, a quotation, and a person etc to name a few. But here in my case it is different and is somewhat complicated too. I tried to sort out what’s the thing that inspires me a lot: an incident; haven’t got to face any of its kind, a song; there are hundreds how could I name one, a quotation; I don’t remember one coz I’m really bad with my memory, a person; for me everyone is half baked. My psychic never gave the abstract answer. And from the day I started to feel the heat of the above question I’ve been wondering if I could ever be inspired by any of these human farces.

I once heard a quote “Looser always ask for the excuses”. And I was really inspired by it. In fact it was true to some extent & that was what I felt. And there was another one “Sky is the limit”. I used to hate boundaries and limitations never lit up my face. So this was also one of the answers. About the song, it was the mood that really mattered. I always find the excuse, so that I can simply avoid any of the above options. It is very easy to walk away from the situation and how could I know the joy of facing the circumstances. Running away never gave me chance to learn new things. That is why I think I’m missing out something in my life. It might be the joy of struggle or the fear of losing. People might talk about success, comfort, joy etc and many such affirmative nouns but all of them sounds good only when spoken. Talking about bringing them into action it is quite different. That is where our negative nouns in oxford dictionary play the vital role. And what more would you seek than the excuse? So I sometime feels like answering above question as “my best quotation is ‘Looser always ask for the excuses’”.

But answering the above one never makes me happy. I feel like loosing. I don’t want anybody or anything to inspire me. What I want is to be an inspiration. And I know this arrogance never suits my dream of being an influence. I’m left with the pool of options, which one to accept as my inspiration. The fear of being a slack avoided me to take the challenge. And I know fear never going to accomplish anything for me and the guts; I think I don’t have one. So am I the looser or just a character who loves the excuses? This is the one that I really wanted to sort out.

Dear Friend

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"It's alright to have butterflies in your stomach. Just get them to fly in formation." - Dr. Rob Gilbert

The tendency for most people is to get into a comfort zone and build a nice little nest there. The comfort zone is made up of all the thoughts we've had and all the things we've done often enough to feel comfortable thinking or doing them. Anything that threatens to push us out of our nest makes us feel uncomfortable.

"Uncomfortable" is a catch all term that encompasses many emotions; fear, unworthiness, doubt, anger, hurt and distrust, to name a few. Since we have labeled these emotions as "bad", we don't want to feel them and so we crawl back into our nests.

It can be argued that there are really only two human emotions,fear and love and that all other emotions are variations on these two themes. Any negative emotion is a spin-off of fear. Except for rare occasions, most of the fear that we experience is over imagined circumstances or consequences. But, since fear keeps us from doing things, we never really check out the validity of the fear itself. A feedback loop of fear → not
doing → ignorance → then back to fear develops.

When something pushes us out of our comfort zone we feel some variation of fear. The bodily sensations that go along with fear are something that we have come to label as "bad" and we want to avoid them at all costs. Let's look at what happens when the body feels fear; adrenaline, glucose and other energy producing chemicals are released into the bloodstream. Our senses actually sharpen when non-essential fears such as, "Did I remember to TiVo Lost?", pop up and we gain an instant ability to focus on the task at hand.

When we are outside of our comfort zone, most of the time, the only thing we are in danger of is learning something new. What is helpful in learning something new? Energy, clarity and the ability to focus - all available to you via your friend, fear.

Now, am I saying that fear is the best motivator? No, but I am saying that you can change the way you look at the sensations that fear produces. Do you realize that, at a somatic level, excitement feels pretty much the same as fear? So what I'm suggesting is that the next time you get pushed out of your comfort zone and you feel the adrenaline of fear, instead of crawling swiftly back into the safety of your nest, change the way you look at it. Choose to experience the sensations of excitement and use the clarity, energy and increased focus at your disposal to say "YES" to the experience and learn something new!

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.

Truly Caring for Your Success!

( I got this article, and i liked it...so i thought it would be nice if i share it with you all)

Back To the Basics

Back To the Basics

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The irritating sound of alarm waked me up at 5:30 in the morning. After spending about half hours of the personal time, I was there on the street carrying my things to start my journey back home. My heart was pounding with joy as I walked through the streets. I really wanted to say goodbye to this beggared and broke Kathmandu. I really wanted to say goodbye to this flat lifestyle. And this feeling grew strong when I saw the long queue of down and out people in front of stone tap waiting for the water, dogs fighting for the bitch on the piles of litter by the main road, and listened the filthy comments of public transports staffs early in the morning.

As the bus descends down the hill of Thankot the young lady beside me played John Denver's "Country Road". Yes, the country road was taking me home. Taking me to the place I belong. That song really made my journey. And by the noon I was there, to my basic, to the land of Virgin Mountain. The sweet aroma passed by me as I was standing on the road. I took the long breath and made my way to home. It is always nice to be home and that was the same for me too. Next day my cousin and I made to the field where we used to dwell during our childhood. It was almost 8 years since I was there. Nothing was changed. Same way of farming, same crops, same wild fruits and more than that people still enjoy the ox fighting on the nearby forest during their holidays. I was too much happy to see them all. I certainly realize that what was lagging in me and my flat lifestyle here in capital. It was the joy of my basic and the feeling of being real me, the fun of playing crossbars, the freshness of the wild fruits, the laugh of my childhood comrades, the swim in the nearby stream and the thrilling chase by ox. All these memories were enough to moisten my eyes and what more could I say than "see, I think there is bug in my eyes", to show myself strong in front of my cousin.

And last week I was back in Kalanki standing bitter hearted because I had realized by then that I can't say goodbye to Kathmandu and to my flat lifestyle. I too realized that basics are the roots; they will be always with us wherever we go or whatever we become. I know I may not be sleeping on the lap of Virgin Mountain or I may miss the ox fight on my holidays but life always moves on and so do I.